How to Change Your Whole Personality
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Posted Date : 12-Dec-2012 , 11:55:47 am | Posted By Vinay Sharma
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How to Change Your Whole Personality
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Find out what you want your new self to be like. Usually it involves some TV or celebrity character, or perhaps someone you personally know who seems to be perfect. But it doesn't have to involve someone you know maybe you just want to be more confident or happy, etc.
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Realize what about your "old" self is what you want to change. Keeping in mind that this article only deals superficially with how to give people a different impression of yourself, some examples of your old self may be that you may talk excessively, make odd noises at inopportune times, or have another physical habit which requires a simple psychological change.
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Figure out how your projected new character will contribute towards your development as a person. Many people will at this stage come to the conclusion that a personality change is not needed, but rather one small habit which negatively affects themselves more than they actually to do other people.
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Distinguish what is it you want to emulate. Don't just look at a person and say "Yes, I want to be like that." Find out exactly what it is that you admire--How they handle a situation, or their word choice? More importantly, how does this contribute to your well being?
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Change your attitude. Do you want to be preppy and happy towards things, or funny and clever, or do you want to be spunky and hard? It may take time to get used to that, so take your time changing it and take it step by step. You will see that this changes the way you talk, and eventually think. It will even change your characteristics, such as what values you hold as a person. Your change in attitude will be most evident when you look the part. You don't have to go out and get a new wardrobe, but maybe adding some new jewelry or changing the way your hair looks, changing the way you smile, laugh, hold yourself, anything.
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Reflect on your new personality. Did you really achieve what you wanted to achieve? Do other people think more positively about you now that you act and wear different? Are you willing to sacrifice yourself for a fake imitation of the ideal person? Many people, at this stage, will realize that what they need is not a personality change, but an acceptance of who they are and a willingness to try to improve yourself instead of hiding under an artificial image which you carry in public.
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